There is a simple thing that guys may do to raise their confront on approaching women and meeting women.
Whenever you feel uncomfortable in any situation, it means that you are approaching this situation on too high a gradient. Instead of runing away from the situation, reduce the gradient.
What are gradients? Gradients are like steps on a ladder. If you try to go to the top of the ladder on your first step, it's going to be impossible to accomplish, and you will not succeed. If you keep trying it over and over you will start building up a complex about failing, and soon not try any longer.
If you try to jump up five or six steps in your first try, it will also be scary -- not necessarily impossible but scary. And the possibility is that if you have no experience jumping that high you will fail .
The best approach is to take the first step and then advance one-step at a time. It is the most comfortable way to climb a step ladder.
When I was a young man I would observe a woman I was attracted to and thought I had to tell her how much I liked her straight away. Well that was leaping up too many steps on the ladder. I didn't even know her.
The initial step is a simple "Hi" and a smile. Then keep walking. Get comfortable just saying "Hi" to girls. Then as the next step when they say "Hi" back or ask you a question, respond to the question, or make a comment about something that she has her interest on to continue the conversation. For example, if you are in a bookstore and she is looking at a book on cooking, ask her what she thinks of that book. Is it any good?
Conversations develop naturally. Do not push it. Get to know her prior to deciding that you like her.
Of course, there is a whole lot more to it, but these are excellent basics to start with. If you use gradients eventually you will learn how to meet women.
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